My wife and I came through a long 15 month deployment in Iraq, While she was home I worried more each day about our marriage because of other relationships I have seen become destroyed while gone for so long. I have seen close friends of mine go through some terrible times. These things made me doubt things in my marriage and start to worry much more. Some of my friends have told me that being married in the military, especially deployed was a BAD idea, and I should think about ending it. They all told me that my wife was probably home cheating on me anyway and there is no room for heartache in the army. Even though I was filled with fear and much more I gutted through the remaining months and returned home to my wife. I still to this day think about all those relationships that were torn apart because of the deployment. I still want to help my friends, but it takes until these soldiers commit suicide until the army gets involved or even knows that there is a problem. By doing what I thought was right I gave the names of some soldiers whom were going through rough times in marriage and relationships to the post family readiness center and to the chaplains mailbox. Sometimes I wonder is what I am doing going to make their situation worse? But I am just doing what I know the right thing is.